I was recently asked, via text, by a fairly new friend if they could borrow or buy a piece of baby equipment for their newborn, which I was not finding particularly suitable for my own newborn... I replied that they could, and that I would not be needing it back, as I was planning to replace it with something else. I didn't receive a reply to this text, but assumed that my friend was probably a bit busy, therefore my husband took it later that day and gave it to her husband as they spend quite a bit of time together.
I didn't hear anything further until a week or so later a photograph appeared on FB of my friend's newborn on a similar item. My husband asked her husband about it and was told that this was borrowed from another friend as ours hadn't been suitable. There has been no offer to return our item (albeit I did say I had no use for it, although had only just bought the thing), or to buy it, and no thanks from my friend. My question is, AIBU to expect a thank you (or acknowledgement of some description) from my friend (in fairness, we don't keep in touch regularly, it is mainly our husbands who have contact), as I haven't heard from her since the original text asking for the item, or even to return the 'unsuitable' item or offer to buy it?
p.s. This is my first post, so leaway would be much appreciated. Thanks
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