I don't see my family all that often. I left home at 18 to go to uni whereas my siblings stayed at home. I now live about an hour and a half from them and they all live in within a few doors of each other and my elderly parents. My siblings are still very dependent on my parents, ie my brother lives with my mum and dad despite being 45! and my sister lives in a house that my mum bought for her. Anyway my brother and sister both took up smoking as young teens, and now my niece who is 16 smokes and so does my 14 year old nephew :( Our parents didn't smoke, but my sister and brother have always smoked around my niece and nephew. I suppose it was inevitable really, wasn't it?! My own ds is 12 and i just can't imagine him taking up smoking in two years time. Just feel sad that they have grown up so quickly. And it isn't just the smoking, it's the language they use and their lack of ambition. My niece in particular has been excluded from school for example. Just makes me sad really.
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