I'm getting married soon and DP has left it up to me to sort every aspect of it out. All he cares about is that we're making some very important vows to each other, and that's the most important thing to him. If I ask him anything about it, he completely agrees with whatever I say, but is very helpful in helping me prepare things, ie making the invitations and driving me to places for bits and bobs for our big day.
I don't want us to go into debt over our wedding day and so have drawn up a few plans to save money. I would like to know if any of them are 'must haves' or 'must do's' and can't be cut on our big day without causing a few of the guests to walk away with a cat's bum face.
So, the plans I have are;
No buttonholes or bridesmaid bouquets, just artificial (but very real looking one) for me. We'll have artificial (but again real looking) flowers from ebay decorating the reception room which will be a function suite in local hotel.
Normal, co-ordinating smart suits for groom and best man from Asda probably with waistcoats and ties second hand from ebay.
Both mine and DP's parents will make a cold finger food buffet for reception (but make it posh as possible and present it lovely as can be)
Wedding breakfast will be just a three course meal in a normal, local country pub with about 50 guests who can sit wherever they like. Don't want to organise people into seating plans, so long as DP and I and both our parents can all sit on one table.
We will probaly get offers of help from friends (one is florist who i'm sure will offer to make button holes and flowers for the church etc for our wedding present and another friend is a caterer who specialises in wedding catering), but if they don't offer, is it really so bad to do the above to save a bit of money?
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justelliotandme · 06/11/2011 14:00
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