hiya this might take a while ive just recently had my 3rd child 2 weeks ago i have a 4 n 2 year old also but this is not my problem. its my sister in law ive been with her younger brother for nearly 6 years and we are around the same age, shes had 2 mc before i met her brother and shes just found out shes pregnant again now this is the difficult part from the time she says she was pregnant ive been bombarded with fone calls or texts she went for an early scan and we were all lend to believe she lost again until a week later she phones sayin that the baby was knocking her for six, now up until then we didnt how to help her deal with yet another mc because nothing we sayd or done would of helped her so that was a few weeks ago now and ive been told of her when and where shes been sick what it looks like and how she cant move from her bed as the sickness is terrible and shes got backache her stomach hurts her head hurts and what shes craving is disgusting and now shes went and bought a heart monitor today so she can hear babys heart so she can keep an eye on it incase anything happens shes also planed the nursery got its name sorted got a deposit on a pram n cot and has bought clothes already and shes only 8 weeks or so i know i sound so miserable talking about it but she actually wears me out more than my children and if i dont phone or text her back straight away i get bombarded yet again with more calls asking why ive not called or replyed to any her texts now i dont want to look like the ranting lady here but ive got alot more on my mind than her pregnancy ano that sounds so bad and i feel terrible for saying it but ive got a 2 week old that i breastfeed and needs my attention and also a 2 n 4 year old so my days pretty full ive tryd saying in nice ways im busy n my partners even sayd to her i jst dont know what she wants from me i cant reassure as she worrys about mc again im a believer 'if its for you it wont go by you' but i cant go threw this for 9 months and she has a husband so why not talk to him about it
AIBU?
im losing the plot but not with children
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