(sorry this is so long)
I gave birth 6 months ago to my beautiful and healthy DS, the birth was horrible, and terrifying and no one has ever taken this seriously apart from DP.
Basically my waters broke at 39 weeks after a sweep that was given because of worries about my sky-rocketing blood pressure. On the first call to the hospital they told me to stay at home and not call again until contractions were coming thick and fast even though I'd been told by my midwife (who was now out of the country) that I would need to be monitored because of my blood pressure from the minute contractions started.
So after about 12 hours my DP took me in anyway because I was in pain and stressing myself out because I thought I should be monitored. The midwives were extremely annoyed that we'd shown up but checked me anyway and found that DS's heartbeat was erratic and my blood pressure was extremely raised. They then proceeded to tell me off because I should have demanded monitoring and my waters breaking early meant a risk of infection, I felt like crying. So they monitored me for a couple of hours, things calmed down and they sent me home, telling me to come back when either my contractions were coming more often or it had been 24 hours since my water had broken.
24 hours came first so we called and they reluctantly let us come in only to find my blood pressure raised so they put me in the ward while they found a consultant. On the ward I was never once checked for dilation as the ancient machine couldn't pick up the contractions I could most definitely feel.
Eventually they took me to the labour ward to get me on a drip and induce me. A very lovely midwife checked me, found that I was 6cm dilated and was horrified that no one had yet checked my cervix.
However she soon went home when the shifts changed and I got a midwife who had never worked in this hospital before she was just helping out. She put the drip in so badly that it tissued and instead of delivering the drugs/IV fluid into my vein it went straight into soft tissue making my arm swell up and go numb. She then got someone else to put it in my other arm who tutted at the "botch job" as she put it of her colleague.
At this point she gave instructions as to when the dosage should be increased, once she left my midwife ignored this and cranked it up saying "let's get this going a bit quicker". My contractions then came so fast that there was no break in between them, and I ended up having to have an epidural because I was getting too stressed and my blood pressure again went up.
After about 3-4 hours of being on the drip my DP noticed that the babies heartbeat had slowed down a lot and mentioned that no one had examined me so the MW had a look and just said.. "there's babies head..."
At this point she panicked, ran into the corridor and within 2 minutes the room had 8 people in it, and a massive machine which I was told was to resuscitate DS if I managed to push him out. A doctor quickly appeared and told them it was too late, I'd have to be taken to theatre.
At this point DP lost it and just told them to give me a chance. With two massive pushes and some tearing DS was born, blue, with a cord around his neck. He was fine within a couple of minutes and wailing nicely.
Ok so I know it all ended up ok, but I lost feeling in my arm for about 3 weeks due to the messed up IV which contributed to my extreme difficulty in breast feeding and no one from the hospital ever acknowledged that the 39 hours from waters breaking to birth was a complete comedy of errors.
I was also then sent up to the ward, still unable to feel my legs properly and when I asked for help to walk to the bathroom was just told they were too busy and I'd have to cope, which led to me falling over halfway down a corridor and unable to get up again.
So AIBU to still feel angry and upset about this? Yes it all ended up ok, but I feel like so many things could have gone wrong because of their negligence.
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SquishyBumsMum · 12/03/2011 16:47
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