Our parents split up 14 years ago and since then my mum could only afford to get us Christmas presents once. So from I was 9 until I was old enough to get a job at 16 we had no presents at all, no Christmas tree, no turkey etc. Since then I have bought my younger brother and sister (now in their teens) presents because we only had each other (no other family to rely on/help out).
This year because I have ds, my sister has managed to get a part time temporary job and my brother is job hunting, I will give them £25 shopping vouchers each, this is a lot less than I have spent in previous years.
However dh's family is much bigger than mine (he has 8 younger brothers and sisters) and they have a mum and a dad and get loads of presents from extended family, I only spend about £10 on each of them (consider that 10x10 is still more than the 3x25 that gets spent on my family). My reasoning being that a small present from me and dh will not make much difference to their Christmas.
I thought this was fine and dh hasn't got a problem with it (tbh I don't think he even notices what I get everyone for Christmas) but recently a friend said I was being mean not to spend an equal amoung on his family as I do on mine and that it is favouritism.
So AIBU?
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To spend more on my dsis & dbro than dh's?
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TheMeow · 09/12/2010 17:31
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