.. i'm fed up with this, i really am. I mean, i presume most women on here would be supportive of a woman's right to work after kids, with a few exceptions maybe
but in the last week i've discussed with 2 people who've described really stupid things regarding a woman's right to work or have leisure time. example:
last week my FIL (never has quite udnerstood why H and I do 3 days each per week, so we get slightly more than 1 income but both involved in upbringing) said, I don't know where you get the time to go to the gym
my H has his hobbies (he's into tennis big time), so why wouldn't i "have time" to go to the gym? i only go twice a week, once before i go to work and once in the evening
and then, last night, my best friend (SAHM of 1, FT) said that she woudn't cope going back to work with the house and that she hardly gets any "her" tiem as it is. i'm trying to be supportive to her with rpactical help on how to set boudaries (her H is helpful, just a bit head in the clouds sometimes)... but really, this shocked me, since she's someone who would definitely agree that in THEORY housework / childcare should be shared if people work equally.
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frgr · 11/10/2010 15:16
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