I've been married to DH for 4 years, and we have 2 kids. He became friends with a woman through FB about 2 years ago, and they met up for drinks a few times (with my knowledge and blessing).
Each time she has made it clear she either wants an affair or for DH to leave his family (he has been completely straight with her and says it will never happen but says when she's not on about that she's good company). She has to date, lied to him, spread rumours that he's having an affair with another friend of ours, been jealous and possessive and convinced her boyfriend that she and my DH were having sex the night our second child was born (they weren't).
DH is a stay at home carer and is dependent on FB and his group of friends to be sociable, so he's not happy at losing any friends without a good reason and tends to give people a lot of chances, whereas I don't.
He stopped speaking to her for 9 months after last incident (at my request) but have recently started talking again and DH is very keen for her and me to be friends, or at least tolerate each other so that he can continue to be friends with her and I DON'T WANT TO! I don't want to be the bigger person here, I don't want this woman anywhere near my family. I have complete faith in DH to be completely faithful, but I just don't want her in my life or my children's lives, and preferably not in DH's either!
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Probably am but fed up!
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laumiere · 25/09/2010 08:06
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