DF and I live together. I have 1 DS from previous relationship (aged 12). DS lives with us most of the time except when he visits his Dad.
DF has 4 DC, who live with us 2/3 days per week.
This weekend, we will be having DF's children here, but DS was due to visit his Dad.
I planned a girly lunch and visit to the cinema with a friend on Sunday. Really looking forward to it. DF will be taking his DS to football and 1 DD will be at a friends and the other 2 will either be with his parents or will go along with him. They will be home by midday at the latest.
Unfortunately my ex has now let me down with regards to having my son this weekend.
Having told DF this, he has not volunteered to "look after" my son while I stil go out with a friend and has said "it's a shame that I have to change my plans because of my ex".
Bearing in mind that quite often I will have his children while he is off out at work or taking one of the other to friends or a club etc., I also take them to school and to clubs (although he doesn't "expect" it) and also the fact that DF goes out with his mates (when his kids aren't around) a couple of times a month. I haven't been out once on my own since I moved in in June.
DF is very good and does pick DS up from school regularly (we live in the sticks) when I'm at work, and quite often, when I am not. He helps round the house and is always around for mealtimes, bedtimes when his kids are here.
DF has now suggested that us and the chidlren go out to lunch on Sunday and as I have had to cancel my plans or he has suggested that I take DS to the pictures with me.
AIBU to expect him to offer to have DS?
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Should I expect DF to "babysit".
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theredhen · 17/09/2010 13:29
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