I dont think I am but help me get some perspective...(NB this is not about bottle vs formula) I have a 5 week old DD and previously suffered from PND (after my DS 9 yrs ago) so my HV came to see me today to administer the PN depression checklist thingy. I completed said checklist and she asked how I was... I said I was generally doing ok and that we had now brought in a couple of FF bottles per day (at her reccomendation)and that DD seemed "happier" taking FF than my breast milk. I am privately a little sad about this but have made my decision regarding FF (lots of reasons and this thread isnt about FF Vs BF so please dont get judgy on me)and feel its the best one for our circumstances...however in reply to my saying "DD seems happier having the bottle than breastfeeding, was very unsettled whilst feeding and I dont know why" HV replied "well she's made her choice, she's made her choice, she prefers bottles - she chooses bottles.
Now am I being slightly daft , but if I were suffering with PND or even just feeling a bit low, that comment would make thing a whole lot worse?? I was a little bit at this spin on things....AIBU?
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mookle · 09/08/2010 15:40
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