So, she dragged me out for a walk around the park yesterday. Baby was is sling and grizzled the whole way, not really the way I would choose to spend my time.
When we got back she insisted on checking the baby's legs for marks, she is so paranoid about hurting her with the sling. And of course she insisted on asking me for a second opinion. There was nothing there, just a tiny mark like a sock would leave.
Anyway, baby was still upset so she took baby off to bed to feed her to sleep - she is far too attached I can't see why she can't sleep on her own.
After beng ignored for a while I decided to head in and see what she was up to, they were both asleep! Typical, I flopped myself down on the bed and they both woke up. Baby was all smiley as she always is after a nap, so she started to play with the baby when she noticed these marks on one leg.
I mean they were tiny, nothing there, a few wee spots that she described as a "pinprick rash" and demanded I get her a glass. I told her she was being daft and overreacting but got the glass anyway. she rolled glass around on baby's leg and then asked if we should take her to hospital. Hospital FFS! I told her, again, that it was nothing to worry about, it was just a heat rash, there was nothing wrong with her.
But no, she rushes out of the room and starts frantically tapping on the computer and then tells me that according to NHS24 we should be calling an ambulance. So we ended up taking baby to A&E, then the A&E at the childrens hospital where baby was subjected to a pile of pointless tests like having her blood taken, poor thing. The whole time I kept thinking she (DP) was about to cry!. At the end of 5 hours we were sent home, and like I had said there was nothing wrong.
AIBU to think she was being completely PFB, totally overreacted, and I really can't be arsed speding 5 hours in A&E with a screaming baby every time she so much as sneezes!!
PS I have tried to write this post from what I feel to be my DPs viewpoint. I am the "she" who was close to tears in A&E. So was I being totally PFB?
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