Hi all,
As many of you know we are 4 weeks into placement with our little dot who is 18 months. After a difficult start she has settled wonderfully and is just a joy to have around despite being a bit of a diva. We have a great routine and she is thriving, the attachment between us all is getting stronger every day and despite the initial rejection of me, we are now inseparable.
So at the weekend we are due to go away (4hrs drive) to BS rugby tour. He has been looking forward to this well before the match happened. We made a decision that he would still be able to go. Its also close to my family so they will be able to meet the dot. Its 4 nights in a static caravan with some matches. Lots of familiar faces will be there and dot is now well accustomed to cheering her big bro on in the cold.
Just terrified its going to upset the apple cast and break what we have worked so hard to achieve. Any of you wonderful experienced people have any words of wisdom? Is it too soon? should we send BS and DH leaving me and the dot at home(this feels like a bad idea to me as think separating us will do more damage!)?
Just wobbling about it.
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Mrscollydog · 21/03/2016 21:07
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