Thanks for your responses.
ElephantsAndMiasmas wrote "Are you doing a survey?".
No, just trying to get some discussion started. My questions were just suggestions in case people wanted a bit of structure. It didn't occur to me it might look like a survey. .
Is your mum still as feminist these days or has she passed the torch to you now?
Growing up, my older sister was the biggest influence on my feminism. We would talk about the issues of the day, walking to and from school. She read lots of feminism books and passed them on to me. I still have all of them.
For the past four or five years I have done quite a lot of reading about women in general and feminism in particular at the Women's Library in London. Unfortunately, I as far as I know, it does not lend books. Whenever I visit the library, I have mixed feelings. On the one hand, I think wow what great books and I'm so lucky to be able to read whatever I like. On the other hand, my reading time always whizzes by and I feel disappointed and frustrated that I can't borrow any books to read at home. I'd borrow the whole library if I could! Anyway, it is a fantastic resource and I recommend it.
I was also really pleased to obtain a broadband Internet connection and I do a lot of web surfing about feminism. One has to be careful using the web because there is so much self-published material and almost no quality control out there and it's "reader beware".
lifeissweet, I talk to my feminist friends about exactly the same issues that you discuss with your friends. Do you find much agreement or do you argue with them? We mostly agree after a lot of interesting discussion. I never felt that feminism was irrelevant but I undertand how women can feel that way, and it is good to read that you "saw the light" - better late than never, eh?.
Sakura, you have made me curious about that Stephen King novel. I shall look for it and if I do read it in the near future, perhaps we can compare notes? Good writing is good writing. Quite a few reviews of "Memoirs of a Geisha" by Arthur Holden commented on how well he wrote as female characters, and they expressed surprise that the book had been written by a man.
foreverastudent wrote - "I grew up thinking feminism was an ugly word. I thought they were all lesbian baby-killers.".
Yes, all those anti-feminists out there do a very effective job with their propaganda.