My daughter asked this question. Luckily I've been lurking on feminism chat. So I explained as best as I could. The difference between male and female, masculine and feminine. What society expects and the boxes people are put into. Blue for boy, pink for girl. Boy toys and girl toys. Clothes etc. How girls are supposed to be good at feeling and boys are good at doing. I expect I waffled a bit. I wasn't expecting such a question. Anyway, she stopped me with a wave of her hand and said 'so gender is bullshit and sex only matters for babies and stuff '. I said 'um yes' so she went downstairs to hassle her dad for the tv so she could have the xbox on. He said no cos star trek was about to start. I told him what she'd said, 'gender is bullshit, expect nothing less from a girl of her intelligence ' was his response. Then we watched star trek.
Gender is bullshit though isn't it? DD has seen through it already. I feel very proud of her. She's very meh about it all.
I wanted to post at the time but got dd's permission first cos I wasn't going to put her views on the internet without her say so, it wouldn't be respectful.
I think she's right btw. I'm now having to clarify it all in my head so I can answer any more questions. Though I have the feeling she thinks its all a bit stupid. She is far more intelligent than I am
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'Mum, what's gender?'
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StrangeIdeas · 24/10/2016 00:24
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