Their voices are not being heard in the rush to prove how enlightened and unbigoted we all are; but when I heard them, I found them heart-breaking, inspiring and salutory. Here's two of them I've come across recently:
Crash- an open letter to Julia Serrano
I've posted these links because it's important that the voices of women (and men) who went through with transition and regret it, are not drowned out by the fuckwittery of well- meaning liberals who are on course to put thousands of children through what these women went through, in the name of tolerance and everyone just being happy. Of course everyone just wants everyone to be happy. But pretending that the solution to body dysmorphia is huge doses of irreversible hormones and surgery, is not a recipe for happiness.