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boldanddetermined.com/2012/11/29/how-to-meet-shy-girls/ Do people genuinely believe this crap?

He thinks that shy girls still do have 'the slutty emotions' but don't usually act on them.

THis is a bit of charter for control freaks, really. Find a girl who is 'shy' and not too attractive on his strange scale of 1-10 and then make her grateful she got picked and boss her about a lot.

I'm not clicking on that, it's the usual pick up artist crap isn't it?

By Linerunner's decription he sounds like an unpleasant guy with too many "slutty emotions"....Oh god! What a phrase! Slutty emotion = sex drive? Shy girls (it's always girls, not women) have sex drives too?! Omg, who would have thought that!!

I saw this, Sharon Horgan tweeted about it. I didn't read the whole thing but it must be a joke, I refuse to believe that anyone could hold views like that, let alone share them in a blog.

Slutty emotions. The phrase is too amazing for my brain to handle.

Read the first paragraph and couldn't get any further. Bleurgh!

The few comments I read are even more disturbing!

I used to think Peter Stringfellow was a caricature but then found out he was real.

Mr Shy-Girl-Blogger also seems very angry about the pretty girls (and their slutty emotions) 'fucking around'. And that's why you should get a modest girl who will gaze at you adoringly and make sure she doesn't have any slutty friends.

It sounds mad but on the other hand perhaps he is articulating what many abusers actually do.

Poppy the comments are just bizarre! (I was finally brave enough to scroll down)

I don't want to click on it either, it does sound like PUA/game bullshit. I think some men really do believe this though. Abusers charter indeed. Eugh.

You want a girlfriend who looks up to you

I like to take that to mean he just fancies short people and not that he wants his girlfriend to look up to him- like she is a child.

It's genuinely weird! It's like ALL women can according to this guy just be categorised and labelled.

Jesus Christ.

He's obviously off his rocker. Or just trying to wind people up??

I don't think he's quite grasped the idea that women are actually people.

So you must keep trying to get the shy girl to fuck you, but if she does then she's not a "good girl" after all, just a used up old whore.

It's like a bloody witch trial.

Shy girls do not typically have the black girl attitude of “I don’t need no man. I’m as strong as a man. I’m just as good as a man. I’m just one of the guys.” or any of that bullshit.

What???? What???? This man is a lunatic and a racist sexist one at that!!

I didn't read as far as that comment, MrsMushroom. On just how many levels is that wrong ... <implodes>

How bizarre. It sounds like a teenage boy trying to impress his friends.

This bloke is dangerous to women.

He's clearly a very abusive person.

CBA to read the blog, but the whole point of blogs is that any fuckwit with an opinion, however stupid, can have a blog and air his/her idiotic views. Why draw attention to one arsehole among millions?

Actually, I thought better and read it. It's hilarious. This guy probably can't even interact with a check-out worker without wetting his pants in fright. It's a magnificent depiction of a thick no-mates who's never had sex with anything other than his teddy bear.

A least he is out there making his complete ineptness known to womankind....

Let's hope he is inept and never gets close to any girls.
Unfortunately he is just one among many guys who are spreading the PUA mentality. Those other how to's and blogs that I've seen are about how to raise your confidence by looking down on ladies and objectifying them, targeting women with bad self-confidence so you can "neg" them, how to get alone with your target as quickly as possibly so she can't change her mind and say no to sex. Vile stuff.

He truly disturbed, I'm guessing though that he sits in all day eating steak working on his weights and wanking so woman kind should be safe.

Saying that though dv exists so perhaps he ought to be locked away for safety

Thanks for linking to this. I am a "shy girl"who shuns men .....and blogs like this show me how right I am not to bother with relationships. Okay so I know not all men are like this but quite honestly I cannot be bothered to sort the wheat from the chaff. My son will be brought upto respect both himself and women.