I would really value other people's thoughts on this. DP and I have been together for over 6 years and are very happy. We have decided not to get married - that's a whole other thread!
My birthday is coming up in December and I would like to ask him to buy me a ring as a gift. I like jewellery and this would be something I would wear every day which would remind me of DP and our relationship. I don't want anything that looks like an engagement ring and I'm not thinking of anything very expensive e.g. no diamonds, for ethical and financial reasons.
On the one hand, I feel this is reasonable - we have no DCs and are doing ok financially so like to spoil each other for birthdays, I like jewellery and would like to have a special piece that reminds me of DP. However, a part of me feels that I should be buying my own damn jewellery and feeling uncomfortable with the whole idea of using a material object to signify love and commitment. Please help me get my head straight about this! Thanks
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Asking DP for a ring
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JosieRosie · 01/09/2011 13:34
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