Dp has always made sexists comments and I know he believes many of them. I think he actually doesn't like or respect women very much. Of course his sexists comments are always just a joke
We have 3 sons and 3 daughters. Of course as the girls grow it worries me more and more.
This morning is a typical example of how he expresses his views.
Ds1 (12.5) dp and I were talking about the origins of pubs. I commented that in medieval times it was the women who did the brewing, not the men. Cue gaffawing from dp. I said surely it made no difference what sex the brewer was?
Ds then went to dp and they had one of those talking about you, but not so you can hear moments. Both laughing. I got cross with them. Dp said I was far too sensitive regarding the woman thing. He thought it was funny that women did the brewing because it meant women did the work whilst the men could sit around and drink.
Maybe I am sensitive, maybe his jokes are all innocent. But I suspect not and it worries me.
I do not really consider myself a feminist but I think he has a crappy attitude to women. He is always making jokey comments about women being useless at diy, driving, all the usual stuff. I don't want my daughters to be exposed to this.
Please tell me if I'm being totally over sensitive about all of this.
Btw our relationship is over, just waiting to move out.
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Fed up of (d)p's sexists comments. Am I just being over sensitive
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bigbuttons · 15/05/2011 10:09
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