My younger sister (aged 28) is morbidly obese. I'm really not sure how heavy but maybe around 16 stone. She is shorter than me so just a guess.
Pretty much, since she was a child, she has always been overweight but in the past few years, she seems to have put loads on. She has just moved to the UK and whilst we aren't in the same area, she travelled to visit yesterday. I hadn't seen her in about one year but do see pics on FB and I was quite upset when I saw her.
She's had and continues to have various health problems, some of which are likely to be weight related with high blood pressure the most recent. She has just started university as well and that may be making things worse. She also smokes and drinks (pints of Guinness).
Where do you start? Is it up to her? I just feel I can't sit back any longer and say nothing to her and watch her slowly killing herself. The high BP at 28 yrs really worries me and I'm scared that the next thing will be diabetes. I have in the past encouraged her to exercise etc. and whilst talking about uni with her yesterday, she mentioned she is going to start playing tennis with a friend.
I don't know what her GP has said to her but can't imagine that her weight hasn't been mentioned. I was going to suggest going back to ask to be prescribed Weight watchers and referral to a counsellor or someone she can talk to about her weight. I really don't think she has a clue about healthy eating. She announced to me yesterday that she had had her first Greggs! She doesn't do any exercise either. I think now at uni, she is probably bored a bit as she is older than the other students and she doesn't have too many lectures each week.
Am I just being an interfering older sister and should mind my own business? I will do anything I can to help her including paying for her to go and see a counsellor, personal trainer in gym etc. I am too far away to travel regularly as she is in North Wales and I am in London. Ultimately I don't want to upset her or make her feel bad. I have struggled with my own weight pretty much all my life too and could do with losing a stone (or two) myself. Maybe I should suggest we do this together?
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Iggity · 28/01/2013 13:06
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