12mo has 3 bottle feeds of milk a day - 6oz morning and night, 4oz in the afternoon. At my 1 year check the other day the HV went on and on about how essential it was to stop using bottles completely at 12m, making me feel quite bad.
I've tried milk in very kind of beaker going but DD just won't take it. She'll drink water from any kind of beaker offered, gallons of the stuff, but as far as she is concerned milk = bottle, water = beaker, and that's that. I think we would be alright if the afternoon beaker was something she'd just sip from over an hour or two, but at the moment she is transitioning between 2 naps and just 1. If she has one nap, she goes down not long after lunch and will sleep fine without a bottle. If she has 2 naps, though, it's later in the afternoon and she's hungry enough to want milk. Getting a banana down her half an hour before the nap doesn't seem take the edge of it, sadly!
Today I tried offering her milk before her nap in a beaker and she had absolute hysterics, she couldn't work out that it was milk even when I did manage to her to taste it, and wouldn't take the beaker because she wasn't 'thirsty'. I gave in and put it in a bottle, which she happily drank and went to sleep. I think it's still a comfort thing at her age.
Do I really need to push this quickly? I was under the impression that I could slowly phase out the bottles as we gradually dropped the afternoon milk, moved the solid breakfast before the milk one etc. But the HV has me worried now...
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How important is it to drop using a bottle entirely at 12m? And how to do it?
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Maebe · 16/02/2013 15:49
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