I'd really appreciate some advice.
I took in a stray over 10 years ago, I was told at the time that she was a young adult, probably born in the late 1990's, making her about 14-15?
She has been very healthy and happy until this year. She has now lost an awful lot of weight (though is still eating) has gone almost completely deaf, and her back legs have given way on a number of occasions, though she is still very mobile and active (manages stairs fine).
She had a lump on her jaw a couple of months ago which the vet said was almost certainly cancer, but it seemed to shrink with antibiotics and he said to just keep an eye on her.
She seems to have gone downhill a bit this last week though - she is no longer grooming herself very well (and she has always been very clean), she drools a lot and she has stopped using her litter tray and started weeing and pooing in other places (a rug, my bed, my bedroom floor). She has NEVER ever done this before - even through upheavals of numerous house moves, 2 children, acquiring 2 dogs etc. she has never messed in the house (my old cat used to wee and poo as a protest if anything upset him!).
She has also started howling and crying through the night and her tone of voice has changed.
I'm wondering if she is starting to suffer and if it is time to start thinking of putting her to sleep. But I'm not convinced that she is in actual pain. We've been together such a long time and I want to do what is best for her and not what is best for me (I'm pregnant again and DH is horrified by the cat mess in the bedroom, worried about germs etc.).
I spoke to the vet on the phone who said its probably just old age and senility and not worth stressing her by taking her in for an exam. Does anyone have an opinion? Do I take her in anyway in case there is an underlying cause which could be treated? Or does it sound like a gradual decline due to old age?
Apologies for the length of my post.
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MurtleTheTurtle · 06/06/2012 16:12
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