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Sulking cat

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Mandy2003 · 26/12/2011 12:53

I posted last week about cat-sitting for my friend's DD.

Well, the cat arrived about 3.00pm on Saturday and since then has acted in ways that I was not warned about. Soon after his owners left he managed to get himself stuck behind a chest of drawers inside a fitted wardrobe unit - crawled in and then could not turn to get out due to where the water stopcocks are located. Fortunately the owners had not gone too far away so they came back and spent an hour getting him back out.

About 3.00am the fun starts. He comes out and starts yowling, mainly sitting in front of the place he got stuck. At breakfast time he yowls, presumably for food/water but when I put fresh and he's put in front of them he looks at the bowls like he's got no idea what they are, then runs away.

He has found several places to hide (spent 8 hours in a corner staring at a wall yesterday) and has not eaten or drunk any water SINCE BEFORE HE ARRIVED ON SATURDAY. I am seriously worried.

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HecateGoddessOfTwelfthNight · 26/12/2011 12:56

I had a cat that used to break into my bedroom and shit on my pillow to indicate his displeasure. It generally happened if I had been away overnight. I'd come back to a cat that refused to acknowledge me, and a big shit on my pillow.

ime, there's bog all you can do except let them get on with sulking (and in my case get a latch on the top of the bedroom door Grin )

Put some food and water in little bowls and put them in the hidey places he has found. If he feels safer in those little spaces, he'll be more likely to have something to drink in there at least.

I realise it's too late now, but tbh, the cat would probably have been happier left in his own home, with you going in every day to feed him and give him fresh water.

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RandomMess · 26/12/2011 12:57

Cats like their water and food in completely different places.

Give him lots of peace and quiet and space.

Leave a tap running/dripping close to the cat as you can (they much prefer runing water generallY)

I'd put some moist food down and replace it every several hours or so.

Sounds very very stressful.

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LynetteScavo · 26/12/2011 12:59

Oh, the joy of cats.

He's probably really scared.


Are you sure he hasn't eaten anything? If he's eaten tinned food he probably won't drink any water.

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LynetteScavo · 26/12/2011 13:00

You haven't left the litter tray and the food next to each other have you? They don't like that.

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Mandy2003 · 26/12/2011 13:07

Due to lack of planning, they ended up with no local cat sitters! They live in London, their parents live where I do about 40 miles away.

He came supplied with a large bag of some science diet dry pellety stuff that he "always eats" and some little tins of organic wet food half of one should be given once a day as a treat. He does not even recognise that as food.

I am going to the Co-op this afternoon to buy a tin of Whiskas. I can recognise that as cat food, and I'm sure he won't be able to resist it's chemical filled goodness. The is a suggestion from my friend that it might give him the runs but that's a risk I will take. I cannot be sure he has not had a drink, but I don't think so. I will put the water bowl behind the TV where he is at the moment, bet he runs off!

It is very very stressful RandomMess - quite the worst Christmas day I've ever had I think.

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RandomMess · 26/12/2011 13:15

I think really just leave him to it completely, don't go near him.

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HecateGoddessOfTwelfthNight · 26/12/2011 13:21

I agree with random, best to dot food and water about and just totally ignore the cat.

When I got a cat from the cats protection league years ago, he spent the first fortnight in an alcove behind the fridge. I just put food and water around and totally ignored him. I never saw him eat or drink during that time, I don't think he touched a mouthful of food for the first week! but he did eat after that. Just not when I was watching!

Eventually he got used to me and started coming out when I was around. It takes time.

Your friends have really let him down by doing this to him, tbh. There is no reason why he has had to travel 40 miles (stressful in itself!) to stay in a strange house with (presumably) a stranger or near enough, just because they couldn't organise themselves?!

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Mandy2003 · 26/12/2011 13:24

Indeed, Hecate - see my first thread about 5 down from this one for my views! I do feel a bit better after hearing your experience though, thanks Xmas Smile

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TheDetective · 26/12/2011 13:44

I really wouldn't worry too much. Cats are finicky little creatures. My cats howl for what I think is food. But it's not, it wants to go out and find better food, and will only eat what I serve as a last resort lmao!
Cats can survive without food and water for a while too!! As long as it's available, they won't let themselves starve!
I've recently got a dog, and my cats refused to come downstairs for over a week, which meant they didn't eat or drink in that time either. They came downstairs when they got hungry enough alright...
I'd just leave the cat be, make sure food and water are available and leave it at that.

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TheDetective · 26/12/2011 13:44

I really wouldn't worry too much. Cats are finicky little creatures. My cats howl for what I think is food. But it's not, it wants to go out and find better food, and will only eat what I serve as a last resort lmao!
Cats can survive without food and water for a while too!! As long as it's available, they won't let themselves starve!
I've recently got a dog, and my cats refused to come downstairs for over a week, which meant they didn't eat or drink in that time either. They came downstairs when they got hungry enough alright...
I'd just leave the cat be, make sure food and water are available and leave it at that.

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MyLittleFluffball · 27/12/2011 02:17

Don't worry at all. I got a juvenile cat (18 months) from the RSPCA recently. She spent the first day under my bed, the second day on top of my bed, the first week exclusively in my room, the second week venturing out into the neighbouring room, the third week timidly going into other rooms and racing back to mine if someone approached her, and only in Week 4-5 did she start independently exploring the house/ getting comfortable. She still loves my room though. She also initially was scared/ wary of me and would sometimes hiss if I came too close - now she is such an affectionate little thing and just cuddles up to me, purring, and will happily let me rest my head on her, put my arm around her, etc.

The poor cat you're looking after is freaked out at being in a strange house and seemingly being abandoned by his owners. He may also be traumatised by the long car drive. I don't know how long you plan to look after him but left to his own devices it could take him 5+ weeks to feel comfortable in your house. His behaviour is unusual for him and is probably never witnessed by your friends, and it's likely due to stress. You just need to leave him to his own devices in my opinion. I don't think buying new food will make any difference - I just think he's too stressed out to feel comfortable eating. He probably feels vulnerable and eating/ drinking makes a cat more vulnerable - they have to dip their head down, stay in the one place, divert their attention to eating, etc. Just leave familiar food and water very close to wherever this cat prefers to spend his time, and he will eventually eat/ drink, I think. Leave the little tray nearby, maybe somewhere where the cat can use the litter tray whilst remaining somewhat hidden - like in a corner or behind something, but with an escape route also. Don't leave the litter tray too close to the food but at this stage the cat may prefer to stick to one area of the house where he feels safe.

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MyLittleFluffball · 27/12/2011 02:21

Sorry, "litter tray", not "little tray".

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MyLittleFluffball · 27/12/2011 02:31

I also think shutting him in one room initially is a good idea. :)

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Mandy2003 · 27/12/2011 11:47

Thank you Fluffball Thanks

There is an update - I bought a sachet of Felix chunks in jelly (what I'm sure his owners would call common people's catfood!) and he loved it - really curious and then keen to eat. Only had half of the half sachet I gave him last night but it's a start Xmas Grin

Have put a bowl of water where he lurks behind the TV and he has drunk from it. The science diet and the fancy organic treat food is being ignored still!

He has used his litter tray from the word go (luckily!) - always about 9pm so that's when I have offered him food, and at 9am. I was told that anything other than the "special" foods would cause diarrhoea but so far so good - the droppings are still solid. Very dry in fact - probably bunged up from years of dry food!

Thanks to everyone for your help, will keep updating.

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Mandy2003 · 27/12/2011 11:47

Oh, I have him till January 9th!

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johnworf · 27/12/2011 20:00

It might be an idea to ge some Feliway. It really does calm them down. ASDA pharmacy sell it a do vets/Amazon. We have the diffuser and the spray.

I agree with putting him a room. It will help him feel secure.

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RandomMess · 28/12/2011 12:47

glad things have improved

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Mandy2003 · 28/12/2011 18:27

Thanks! Not too bad now but he does not come out a lot. Still trying to get him to eat the "proper" food he was supplied with but no luck. I put Felix on one half of a plate and the fancy organic stuff on the other half - he eats down to the line of Felix chunks that's touching the organic and no further!! What do you make of that? Confused

I think there's a possibility he may have eaten 3 science diet biscuits today - yippee! He's had one small Felix sachet every 24 hours since Monday, that's probably not enough but at least it's something. Also, he only seems to drink once a day for about 1 minute but I can't tell if he's urinating because of the special scientific cat litter he arrived with.

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RandomMess · 28/12/2011 22:02

well he sounds fine, he'll probably just settle in a bit when it's time to go home!

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