We have a lovely dog that we rescued when he was 4 months old, he's now almost 18 months old and while he is generally well behaved he is still a pup.
we've done training with him, and he follows most commands, but... he constantly tries to lick DS (6 months old) normally after eating cat poo, he constantly wants to play with DD (5) and is a bit boisterous, so I find we're constantly having to tell her, stop running, no dancing in the house, no gymnastics or the dog will try and jump on you, we've tried separating them, but dog will just constantly throw himself at the stair gate/door and bark until he's let back in, we're constantly struggling to keep him under control if DD has friends over, to the point that some friends no longer want to play because they're scared of his barking.
if the house is quiet and it's just DP and I in the evening he generally just curls up and goes to sleep but as soon as there's any activity he wants to get involved. I don't blame him he's still young
But i see the effect it's having on DD, she now hates the dog, she can't be a kid in her own house, anything left out gets destroyed so we're constantly having to ask her to play in her playroom, and it's isolating her. if they are in the same room together I'm constantly having to say "No" to the dog, always up watching him, if I give him a toy or a treat he'll ignore it to pester DD.
I really don't know what to do, but I'm reaching my wits end, he's walked twice a day, long walks (over an hour running around fields chasing bubbles, balls) swimming in the river (although less now it's getting colder) he's menatlly stimluated at home, playing hide the wallet, doing tricks, mini agility in the back yard. we keep hoping he'll settle down as he gets older, but DD only has one childhood and I feel the dog is ruining it.
Another thing I've noticed is if I'm BF'ing DS or pinned under him as he's just fallen asleep the dog will totally ignore me, it's the same with DP, if we can't get up to tell him off he'll just blank us and carry on, but if I'm not doing anything and just gentely say "no, on your mat" he'll stop immediately and go there.
we tried a pen, but he just barked constantly and threw himself against it, we tried leaving the door open and feeding him in it, but he starved for 3 days (well I say starved, dug up the cat poo and ate that, but didn't touch his food) we've tried raw food diets, every dry food from butchers/wagg to Canigan and Pure nothing makes a difference.
puppy classes are next to useless as it's DD he's obsessed with, he recalls fine from other dogs, rabbits even deer, but nothing we do with DD (stand still, turn you back, hands down, don't squeal, dont run, don't dance) just have no effect.
what do we do? I feel heart broken for DD, she's got it hard enough with a new brother, and she says she feels lonely all the time. if I go into her playroom with her the dog just throws himself at the gate, if we put him outside with lots of toys he just throws himself at the sliding door and barks constantly.
Please help, he's a lovely dog, but I can't let me DD take second place anymore, I don't want to rehome him, but I don't know what else to do now.
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MTBMummy · 07/10/2014 13:12
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