Puppy bit toddler...(39 Posts)
Advice please wise doghousers!
My 12 week old puppy bit my two year old yesterday. I gave the DC a treat each to feed the puppy. He did snatch the treats (with me he waits for it) but I put that down to the fact that they are much shorter than me so he had a better chance of stealing it.
He had finished his treats, then DC2 (2yo) put her hand down to stroke him and he growled, jumped up and bit her hand.
There were no marks on her and she just cried out in surprise. I said "no" and put him outside if the kitchen where we were (there's a baby gate on the kitchen door so he could still see us).
He's getting a bit growly at the moment.
He's starting with a trainer next week and we are working hard to socialise him and take him wherever we go. The DC are told to be careful and gentle and only use their hands to stroke him and not kiss etc. he has a crate which the DC aren't allowed to touch but he rarely chooses to go in it.
I'm pretty scared that he might hate the DC and hurt them as he gets bigger. They are supervised and as above we have rules about not picking him up, how to touch him and we've discussed growling and leaving him alone etc.
We are working on reducing his bite strength which seems to be working and I'm wondering if that why there were no marks on DC2.
It wasn't playful and there was no warning. She out her hand down and he snarled, jumped up and bit her hand all in the space of a second.
It sounds like you need to work on his impulse control. He is a young puppy who was given food (and allowed to snatch it) and the next time a hand appeared was unsure what to do.
Hold food in your hand and the minute he comes to mug your for it close your hand, I expect he will mouth you, paw you etc say nothing, do nothing but keep you hand shut, the second he backs off open your hand, he will come back again to mouth etc. What you want is him sitting still and then he can have the food.
He will learn this soooooooo quickly if you say nothing and give him time to think. video here explaining it
He is not pushing boundaries, not trying to dominant but is a puppy that needs to know how to behave in certain situation.
It's your choice is a great way for all puppies to learn eg they go to charge out of the crate, you shut the door, however if the puppy is sitting at the back of the crate when you open the door and waits for the release command to come out the door stays open.
Thanks everyone for the replies.
We've been for a walk this afternoon and the DC had a short turn each holding the lead. Obviously we made sure they were gentle and not pulling him.
He's out in the garden having his tea. We are all having a picnic in the garden so we bought his bowl out and he sat back while the DC put the food in his bowl. They then sat chatting nearby while he was eating but not allowed to bother him or get too close. It went really well and I think we might let them feed him every meal time. They enjoyed it and it is probably good for him to see them caring for him and it reinforces to them that he is a real creature that needs looking after.
I really don't want to screw this up and end up with a dog that's aggressive to the DC or unhappy.
wrt the bite that happened. he could have been guarding his treat if he hadn't quite finished it and thought your toddlers hand was going to steal it rather than pet him.
wrt the dcs feeding him in his bowl. it's really useful to teach the wait command for this. i have a (massive) golden retriever and by four months he was bigger than my one year old so i make him sit and wait for the command before he can eat his food. if he barges i lift the bowl. he sits and waits automatically now. it really is very useful if the dcs want to feed him, i know he wont barge them out of the way.
We had a Golden Retriever when I was a small child, and later, a Cairn Terrier. With both of them, we used to make them wait when the bowl was put down as Booyhoo says. When they were puppies, we also used to periodically put a hand on/in the bowl, and also take their nylon bone things for a few seconds, before giving it back. Neither of them was ever aggressive with food (or anything else).
It isn't advisable to stick your hands in a dog's bowl, or take it away mid meal. If a waiter did that to me mid meal I'd probably stab him with a fork so why should a dog tolerate it? Best that all family members are just taught to leave a dog to eat in peace.
I agree with not taking their food away. However, in the perfect puppy book ( which I highly recommend!) it says to add tastier bits to their food as their eating, eg ham etc. this way they always percieve a hand near their food as a good thing!
How do you stop a puppy turning into a dog who is aggressive/ possessive over food, toys, etc.? What happens if your toddler drops something tasty, dog goes for it and so does the child? If a dog has never learnt this lesson, this could turn nasty. Genuinely interested, by the way. Seems like there are trends in puppy training, much like bringing up children. My childhood dogs were puppies 15 plus years' ago and it was still about 'the pack', making sure the dog knew the owner was 'top dog', etc. We got my Cairn when I was 15 and she died last year, so it is a long time since I had a puppy.
you teach a command to wait for food and reward when he waits. do it with all sorts of scenarios, feeding time, 'dropped' food, treats. do it with toys, socks (i always drop them when taking stuff out of the machine!) anything you can think of that he might make a grab for if it was left lying around or dropped. you train it so that it becomes his first reaction to wait for a command when he sees something on the ground or fall.
always make sure the reward is worth it. so when training him to wait if he sees a bit of chicken dropped on the floor then reward with something he likes more than chicken.
i know there will be times when stuff drops and you dont get to him in time but keep going with training and ignore if he does eat something before you get to him or if he ignores your wait command. dont punish or give any attention. distraction is also very handy to steer him away from a dropped item if the distraction item (favourite toy or treat) is something he really loves. it gives you time to lift the dropped thing from the floor.
also wrt possesiveness over feeding time. give him peace to eat. that means dcs need to know that a dog must not be approached when eating so he never feels as if he has to warn you off. if he aways feels relaxed when eating then his stress levels will be low if say you have to suddenly approach him or lift his dish for some reason, a warning growl or snap wont be his first reaction because he'll not associate his food with that feeling of having to protect it.
Thanks for the info Booyhoo.
hope it's helpful for you.
Yes, I hope it will be! I really miss my old girl (and so do my children), but we can't get another dog at the moment as we're living abroad and don't know where we'll be going next. One day, when we're settled somewhere permanently.
aww, i hope that works out for you.
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