Hello!
DS1 is six (I also have DS2 who's 2) and when he was four, he was bitten twice by different dogs in a few months. One was a my aunt's dog who was thought to be safe with children, and was totally unprovoked. The other was when we were out for walk and there was a couple with a collie on a long lead- Again, DS wasn't even looking in his direction, but the dog snapped and lunged at him. :( DS was shaken but unhurt both times, thank goodness.
Since this, DS1 has understandably been a bit wary, but it seems to have gotten worse in the last few months, and he gets very very nervous of any dog. He's not phobic- Doesn't cry or anything like that- But he'll go out of his way to avoid them, will run from them etc.
I adore dogs, and I don't want him to have this fear. I want him to know how wonderful they can be, and how they can be real friends (but, of course, I don't want him to trust them implicitly and approach strange dogs!) We don't have dogs in the family, and none of our local friends have dogs that DS1 could spend time with to put his mind at rest.
Any tips about how I could go about resolving this?
A friend thought it would be a great idea to actually get a puppy ourselves, for DS- And I admit, he is the type of child that would spend hours with a pet, and really love it. But I don't know if that's craziness. (I do know, by the way, how much of a commitment it is and I wouldn't take it on lightly. I adore dogs and I wouldn't expect my 6 year old to take responsibility for it!)
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DS is scared of dogs- How do I increase his confidence?
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BelleEnd · 05/11/2011 17:18
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