If I get banned (which I suspect I might) I love you all in here.

[emptyshell]

The people with a braincell and a sense of perspective... love you guys - the rest can go burn in hell

See ya all cos I ain't stopping and being shouted down by the self-entitled.

[DogsBestFriend]

You can stick around (in fact you MUST cos we like ya and we need ya!) AND get your point of view over - just box clever!

Smarter to say "People who have X attitude are really cuntish" than, "You're a cunt for having that attitude.

Trust me. I've called a couple of dog-haters cunts and managed not to get myself banned yet!

:o

And please - don't stress yourself, don't let them get to you, don't rise to it. If I can manage it with my big mouth you can!

[Scuttlebutter]

Noooooo! Don't get banned. We want more Nancy stories. And fuck the entitled idiots.

[emptyshell]

Nah I insulted a single mommy (and we can throw in sexual orientation into the bullying card too) I'm a gonner - she's just made me see red so badly I'm fully prepared to go to the wire and get away from here.

I'm at breaking point again anyway.

[AnyFucker]

why is this in the DogHouse topic ?

anyway, are you ok ?

[emptyshell]

It's in the doghouse topic cos they're the only decent non self-entitled sane buggers on here with any perspective outside their own little bubble of a world and they're the ones who don't expect the rest of the planet to bend over backwards and do all the shitty bits for them.

Hence why I love the regs in here.

[Tortington]

i am totally entitled and using this non post to nosey in on any gossip which might ensue

[NLurkerispackingforholiday]

I am also nosy and think I have established why the op thinks she might get banned.

OP - clearly you are in a lot of pain. I can't imagine how you face what you've faced. Don't be a dafty trousers thoug and et your anger about that overwhelm you and cut yourself off from all the support and understanding that you WILL find here. In other words don't cut off your nose to spite your face.

Leave the thread that has so angered you and post about muffins, puppies and wallpaper for a bit.

[mumatron]

Being nosey here too. Can you link to the thread in question so we can see if you were out if line or not?

[AnyFucker]

ah

< backs slowly away >

some of us non-dog-owning-but-sympathetic-to-dogs people are ok too, ya know

[DogsBestFriend]

Agree with NLurker.

PS NL, what's a holiday?

[AnyFucker]

and we will even support you while you have a good old rant, even if it's about doggy things or non-doggy things

[NLurkerispackingforholiday]

Holiday - time away from home for rest and recuperation.

Requires:

Exhausting preparations at work to ensure place does not actually fall down whilst self away
Exhausting preparartions at home to ensure family have clothes and food and books and dvds and board games and walking boots and waterproofs.........


After all that I usually have a nice time

But then I probably would have the same nice time staying at home without all of the above too......

[myrosynose]

you're not going to get banned you muppet

it smells of dogs in here

[pinkytheshrinky]

I am a soon to be dog owner but still a massive cunt but thought you made some very good points on that other thread

Keep your chin up sweetheart x

[JustFiveMinutesHAHAHA]

Emptyshell - I sent you a PM earlier - hope you got it x

Every now and then you just have to vent and really the entitled little madam was asking for someone to put her straight

Maybe stick to the safer topics for a little while :/

Hugs/wine/chocolate/punchbag - take as required x

[DogsBestFriend]

Ah, I remember now, NL. :)

emptyshell, there's a lot of sound advice here from people who care. Honest!

And btw, the entitled little madam WAS asking for someone to put her straight, Just is right.

[Elibean]

No idea what thread you're all referring to, but don't go regardless (nosey as the best of 'em, but time-deprived).

Sounds (I might be wrong, not having read thread) like a case of trying to avoid over-entitled youths who have yet to experience life/pain/being out of control.

We need you to talk pups with, y'hear?!

[AnyFucker]

ok, now I know what this thread is about

emptyshell you won't get banned

you are hurting badly and a few careless words from a self-entitled pillock can send anyone into a tailspin

I remember once having an absolute fucking (metaphorical) screaming fit on here and taking everyone aback with the strength of my feelings (I don't post much personal stuff on here)

Somebody said something stupid at the wrong time, that is all

It's ok, seriously

I hope you feel a bit better for getting it all out, tbh x

[AnyFucker]

oh, and athough how you feel won't go away, that particular thread will just become the equivalent of yesterday's newspapers

MN is the equivalent of a goldfish bowl

we all have about a 2 second memory (not that it matters, because your feelings are just that yours )

[minimu11]

emptyshell missed the thread. Ignore, ignore and ignore. Although if MN is winding you up maybe a break is a good idea obviously only from the rest of MN stay in the cosy doghouse

I agree totally with AnyFucker

[CoffeeIsMyFriend]

No idea what thread you are talking about. Just ignore it all. So not worth the hassle.

STay calm and collect your thoughts in the doghouse with us lot.

[RedwingWinter]

I missed the thread but hope you can ignore it. I will miss updates on the dogs if you go!

[piprabbit]

I think that thread, and the subsequent flounce were both a pointless farce. The OP didn't seem to want advice or to respond to other posters and somewhere along the line empty got tarred with being the 'bad guy' after which it all went to rat shit. I didn't see any bullying of the OP.

I don't normally post over here - but sincerely hope you don't get banned for one stupid, pointless thread.

I hope you feel better about MN in the morning.

[foolserrand]

emptyshell for what its worth, I have agreed with everything you have said on the other thread. I am mainly a lurker, but respect you greatly. I am so sorry for all you have been through, please don't go!

[PinkSchmoo]

Empty,
Don't mean to be a stalker and hope you don't mind me following you over here but I can't pm.
You spoke about not getting any help in dealing with your depression through the nhs and I, perhaps wrongly, assume that this includes counselling. I have been able to access a counsellor through a charity as I would be unable to afford an indeterminate and potentially infinite amount for counselling. Have you tried contacting mind or another similar organisation to see if they can support you or point you toward help?
I apologise again and so fervently hope that you can find some peace.