DD (16) came into the kitchen last night to talk to me- she looked a bit embarrassed so I had a fair idea of what she wanted to talk to me about! She has been with her boyfriend for about 5 months and she told me last night they had sex for the 1st time last week. Inside I was screaming 'Nooooo not my baby"! but I said" well I am glad you have come and told me- did you use a condom' She said yes and they had talked about sex for a while before deciding to go ahead. The b/friend has told his Mum and Gran (who he lives with) and to be fair, really encouraged ED to tell me.
We discussed contraception and she said she wants to go on the pill so I said ok and she has an appt (the Dr is the Dad of my ds's best buddy from pre-school- dd is mortified!!!!)on Friday.
Dh is away and I have said she needs to tell him herself and she is dreading that. i think he will freak out so will have to try and calm him down no doubt!
I am glad she has come to tell me but I am sad at my little girl growing up. I am glad she waited til she was 16 as you hear of so many kids having sex at 13-14 these days - of course I would have preferred she waited til she was 30!!!
I am not sure how I feel about this. I am really really pleased she could come and talk to me cos we do argue a fair bit and I worried she wouldn't come and tell me this sort of thing.
How do I deal with my little girl growing up?
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kansasmum · 15/06/2010 10:31
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