Hi,
My son is 12 and a half and is starting to fluctuate in his moods which is ok. However yesterday I asked him to go to the shops after school for me to get a birthday card and some chocolates for his Dad's birthday today. I've been in bed since Saturday with the worst cold I've ever had and really needed his help.The shops are a 15min walk away but he just looked at me coldly and said Tough it's too hot you should have been organised earlier.He stomped off to his room and I made him eat hid tea in there and stay there until bedtime. I explained to him that he can make his own choices now he's older but that he has to learn there are consequences to them. I told him I really needed his help and that it's upset us that he wouldn't.This morning he's still unrepentant,says it's my problem for not organising card earlier and just shrugs his shoulders at whole thing. Plus in true egocentric style is getting upset beacuse we are being horrible to him! I guess I need advice in that do I just let it go or take away some pocket money to show how let down we feel? To me it's more than just a row he's really been nasty. Or is this just a normal emotional push away thing that teenagers do?
Hope I don't sound too naive but his bahaviour has really shocked me by it's sheer coldness !Any advice on how to move on gratefully recieved !
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beetlebabe · 30/06/2009 11:48
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