The title says it all really. I wonder if I am pressurising/helping her too much with schoolwork. She seems to have a lot of school tests and I generally help her to revise because she asks me to, but as soon as we sit down to work she is rude/speaks over me/stroppy etc etc.I have asked her if she wants to work alone but she says no. It always ends in an argument. My DD is a reasonably bright girl in most of the top sets at a high achieving comprehensive-I am worried that if I don't help her-she will do no revision and she will be moved down. I do know that she has to want to do well for herself but it is hard to see her not achieving her potential. As a background we adopted her while she was at primary school and she had missed a lot of school so we've put a lot of time and effort in to help her catch up-maybe she's just had enough!
Any advice welcome!
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Deteriorating relationship with 13 year old daughter- advice needed please. Sorry-long.
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mycatunderstandsme · 26/01/2009 20:37
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