she is a bright girl but holds back because she is frightened of failing.
School have approached her to apply for Oxbridge but she is adamant she is not clever enough to get the results needed.
Tried telling her that with a negative attitude about her abilities she will hold herself back.
Obviously I will not encourage her to do something she feels isn't right but it bothers us that she is lacking in confidence about her ability in school.
This has been a recurring theme throughout school ,she has alwasy done well despite but it seems to have come to a head now she is doing A levels.
She seems to be too scared to set herself goals because she's frightened of not reaching them.
Any advice?
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why does my dd have such low confidence in her abilities?
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brimfull · 24/01/2009 14:27
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