hes 12.5 years and how ever much i punish him,it seems to have no/or little effect on him.
homelife isnt great i spose which may contribute. money is a constant struggle but we make ends meet. he has no contact with his father, which he has counselling for. has a toddler brother who is poorly a lot and even though it was always just "us" before his brother came along, hes never moaned about not getting any time spent alone with me and he does adore his brother.
the little ones dad has dragged us through court for the last 2years for contact that he already has! that alone has caused a huge amount of upset and my ds cant stand his brothers dad because of this. he avoids him when he visits our home.
i know its not just him, because i am exhausted from looking after the pair of them and dealing with toddler tantrums/teenage tantrums, so i can fly at him if he gives me lip or disobeys then it turns into a screaming match. i know this is wrong, but the constant battle is so depressing.
today hes gone to london with the family, and i couldnt even wave goodbye to him because we'd had another blow up and i caught him doing the wanker sign behind me. i actualy told him i hope he got lost cause ive had enough
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brandy7 · 12/02/2007 09:54
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