DD has struggled with anxiety and depression in her first year at uni, and probably for the year before, although she hid it well. During this time, I think she binged/ate for comfort and has gained around 3 stone this year.
She is a high achiever and to all outsiders she seems totally fine. She is on anti-depressants and seems much better in herself, seems motivated to do work and extra-curricular activities. But her weight continues to go up.
She is very intelligent and her weight used to upset her when she first gained in term one but she seems to have disassociated herself from her body and also stopped caring about her appearance and wearing make-up/doing her hair.
She used to exercise loads at school, high standard sport and dance at least 12 hours a week- and all the problems seem to have stemmed from stopping to concentrate on getting her required a-level grades. We've suggested she exercise, her GP and counsellor told her to exercise to manage her anxiety/depression, I offered to pay for a gym- but she just won't. She has also stopped counselling and although I've got some CBT sessions okayed by our insurance, I'm not sure she'll arrange them.
I know I have to just leave her to it and support her where I can but if this continues her physical health is at risk as well as her mental health. I've not mentioned her weight, although in the past I've probably been too 'helpful' and proactive with remedies instead of reassuring and supportive.
Anyone been through this?
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anotherguiltymum · 02/10/2016 08:56
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