Dd2 is 13, Year 8. She's always been quite an emotional child anyway and is finding the teen years hard so far with lots of ups and downs. It doesn't help that she's finding friendships hard at school, she has various friends but would love a nice group of friends which hasn't happened (yet).
She says she feels invisible at school, not disliked but not actively liked if that makes sense. But some days are better than others, recently they were arranging groups for a forthcoming residential trip and was surprised and flattered that one of the girls wanted her in their group, it made her day.
Sometimes she gets very down, crying and snapping at people for no apparent reason. She often doesn't know WHY she's upset. But sometimes she says things like she wishes she could disappear and she doesn't like herself and she feels guilty being envious of her sisters and peers who appear to have better friendships than her. Generally these feelings don't last long, we have a cuddle and a chat and she's ok.
But I'm worried there is something deeper going on. How do you know if it's normal up and down teen stuff or something like depression? I did talk to a child psychologist a few months ago and she said it didn't sound too serious. But this 'wanting to disappear' stuff....?
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Depression - how do you know when it's serious or usual teen stuff?
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Dancergirl · 11/06/2016 13:30
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