DD 15 has ADHD and as a consequence of her impaired memory a delay of about four years in her learning development.
Her behaviour seems to become more and more concerning with age. She intervenes in dangerous situations eg she witnessed DV when out with friends (who called the police) but DD took it upon herself to approach F ing and blinding about him being a woman beater even when he squared up to her. Her friend was physically assulted a few weeks ago so DD "helped" by fighting the girl who assulted her and subsequently two of the girls friends, this has led to many propositions of fights from this girls friends and DD does not give a toss and is happy to oblige "if they throw the first punch". She is very impulsive and challenging pretty much all the time and can't trial medication due to an irregular heart rate. I don't want to have to ground her permanently but she is making so many risky choices I am worried sick every time she leaves the house. Obviously we speak at length but she can see no wrong in what she does "do you expect me to watch someone being beaten and not help" , I have explained the helpful way to intervene risk free but this doesn't seem to sink in.
Friends use her but again she doesn't see it for instance if they have an issue with someone they wind DD up to make it her problem "oh DD they told everyone you were an ugly (insert choice swear word) and said X and Y about you". I am in a permanent state of anxiety now worrying about every day and what may happen.
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Lottielottie41 · 16/05/2016 09:01
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