DD is very secretive and tells me next to nothing. I discovered this by accident (I truly was not snooping). At first she denied it was hers but then admitted that she has been seeing this boy (18) for two months! I knew nothing about it so she has obviously been lying - or being very selective with the truth - about where she has been. I just assumed she was out with her friends coz thats what she told me. I suppose I should be pleased that she has had the sense to take precautions. I dont know if she has actually had sex or is planning to as she wont discuss it with me but I am a little bit shocked by it all as it is quite out of the blue and I suppose I am a bit old fashioned and I've never even met the boy, although I do know who he is and DS knows him. She wont bring him round, even though he wants to meet us, as I am too interfering and embarassing!
She made me promise not to tell DH about any of it but I feel torn about what to do. If I tell him and she finds out then she will never trust me and definitely will not tell me anything ever again. But then again I feel bad for keeping this from him. Either way I feel like shit and I dont know what to do. I probably am going to have to keep it to myself.
We had the most horrendous row with DD last night going on till 2.30 am (not about this however). DH and DS were involved too although they didnt know any of the above and DD was screaming and throwing things and threatening to leave the house. She launched herself at DS as he was defending me and I had to physically get in between them to keep them apart. She really is the most selfish, uncaring person I know but not too different from some other teens as I have been reading on MN.
So I've been up all night and could use some kindly advice.
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