I'm really worried about my 18ydd. In last month or so secretly smoking(cigs and tobacco and who knows what else) and drinking spirits. Finding bottles secreted in room/bags. I think this ties in with boyfriend and new social group of his(younger). Am watching her cancel exciting gap yr plans, staying over at his, unhappy, withdrawn, secretive, telling lies. Bright intelligent girl, completely lost direction and drive. Already on antidepressants and seeing counsellor- when she remembers to go. Feel complete failure as mum. What shall I do now. Is this perhaps normal behaviour and will I look back in a few months and see it was just a phase? Keeping me awake at nights with worry. Any wise mums netters out there with advice?!????
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