She has changed so much in the last few months, completely obsessed with her online world - youtube bloggers, instagram, facebook. I try and limit it and get her to do other things, she studied very reluctantly during half term for end of year exams, not enough though.
She did go out with friends a couple of times, she has lots of friends and seems popular.
I'm struggling with her attitude towards me. I seem to piss her off constantly, I can be bright and breezy and ask her to get off the ipad and help lay the table or empty the dishwasher and I just get an eye roll or a stroppy snappy reply. There is literally no conversation between us - I ask about school and get another eye roll and get accused of nagging and firing questions at her. I ask about friends and she's stroppy.
However, the moment she wants a lift or some money or anything else she's sweetness and light. I'm torn between clinging to these chinks of light and telling her to shove it and make her own way there until she can be more pleasant on a more regular basis .... but that would be childish presumably.
I can't hug her, she goes all stiff and tells me to back off, says I'm weird.
She's not like this with DH, but he doesn't get as involved in the 'do this, do that, you need to revise, you need to eat, you need to go to bed at a reasonable time".
I miss her, she used to be such great company, is it just a phase? Feel really down this morning after another morning of her barely concealed contempt of me.
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