My dd (14) recently had two "best" friends one who us very quiet and the other who Imo was very controlling. They didn't like the fact that she wanted to talk to other friends etc and my dd seemed to be excluded from sleep overs or trips to each other's houses . It's all come to a head with both of them saying that they no longer want to be her friend, my dd got v upset and said she was going to self harm.. The loud ones mother has got involved and virtually instigated the break up as she told me that she thought they needed a break . The last two weeks have been horrible. I have no control over the situation but feel she's been ostracised from her clique at school and is just meandering between people. She seems not to be bothered to encourage a new friendship group .. Maybe it's too early? She seems to have lots of friends but I feel that everyone seems settled in their own groups and she is now not belonging anywhere. I don't know what to do but I needed to write it down to get it out of my system.
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