Ok so I knew it was wrong but I snooped. DD15 tells me nothing. Things have been a bit fraught at home lately and a new group of older boys have come on the scene. I know of 2 of them as ds went to school with them but the other I did not know, only his christian name was mentioned and its really easy to find things out these days. I just looked on facebook. So now I know who dd is hanging around with and thats fine. DD found out about it as i opened my big gob and she went ballistic and stormed out of the house.
Am I the only person who has ever done this? Its not as if I have read her diaries. I wouldnt/couldnt read her texts and have no access to her facebook or twitter accounts as she wont accept me as a friend and I dont know her twitter name. Tbh I dont want to know what she puts on there as I probably wouldnt like it.
I just thought what if something happens and I dont even know the names of the people she is out with, especially as they are riding around in cars. She wont tell me so I will find out and that will ease my mind a bit, which it did.
So now she hates me even more and I feel ashamed. How do I make amends?
You dont have to tell me it was wrong, coz I know that. Dont be too hard on me. I did it because I care and worry and want to keep her safe.
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Is it wrong to want to know who your dc's friends are - I snooped
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sillygiraffe · 07/03/2015 19:27
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