my dd is 13. lovely looking albeit waiting for braces, curvey size 12-14 with a bit of a tum. convinced all friends size 8, gorgeous etc and so every time there is a social event there is a huge trauma in the home. have tried everything and always make sure she has nice clothes that suit but are funky without constantly buying her stuff. she just will not accept that she looks fine. have encouraged about posture and whata difference it makes without nagging but just get grunted at. do sympathise - was much bigger @ that age than now and remember self conscious etc and i only had brother's old clothe! stress all the usual things about being positive and so forth, but just can't seem to get her to get on with it and enjoy. life is too short. any bright ideas?
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13 year old girl hating her appearance! help!
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bigfatred · 11/10/2006 19:09
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