Hiya, i really just need a bit of advice. 4 months ago i got a job over 100 miles from our home town, i took the job and moved with my hubby and 3 sons aged 12, 10 and 5. Because our eldest son was in year 10, now year 11, we decided that it was best for him to stay with my parents (who have now separated!) until he finished his exams in year 11 and then he would move back in with us to go to a local college here.
Although things haven't worked out as well as we had hoped (i am not happy in my new job and i am looking to leave) we know that living in where we are is definitely a better, safer place to bring up our kids. However, our son is now saying that he doesn't want to move here and that his whole life is back there. I can see how upset he is about this, he fully agrees that this is a better place for his brothers but has clearly stated that its not the right place for him. He obviously want to live with us, but there not here. I can't afford to fund his life there as well as live here. It a mess and i just don't know what to do. I could go back but i know that it would be the worst thing for the rest of our family and my marriage.
Any advice??
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mamawitch · 24/08/2014 21:24
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