My DS (17) is probably smoking, but denies it. I have found filters and an empty tobacco packet in the past. DH had a good chat with him, and he also then said he wasn't. Today he is off college and declared he was going "for a walk". We live in the middle of nowhere and he has never been a fan of nature. So I assume he wanted a fag.
We have a fairly good relationship, so have had a good chat about dangers and drawbacks of smoking (again). DH father died aged 48 from heart disease prob caused by smoking.
On the spur of the moment I have offered him a bribe of a couple of hundred quid if he is does not take up / quits smoking by his 19th birthday. DH and I had discussed this but he thinks it is a bad idea. So I have told DS that it is between me and him only. The deal is that he has to agree to me checking his bag on random occasions (with him there).
It probably won't make any difference, but I would be interested in anyone else' experience of doing this.
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Bribing a teenager to stop/ not take up smoking.
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havenlady · 25/06/2013 13:20
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