my son is 14 and in the last few months he has been very moody ,he says he hates living here with us,that his siblings are awful and he cant stand them ,he has nothing in his life thats good ,he feels he doesn't have any skills (school wise) that his life is boring .
all this i think can be normal teenage stuff but as both me and dh have a history of anxiety and depression it really weighs heavy on my mind.
he has lots of friends (mostly female) and he has a girlfriend that he has been with for over a year but she is very busy with clubs and social life so he doesn't see her much.
He never tells me anything so i have had a look at his messages on facebook (to rule out bullying as much as anything else)
one message to his best friend said something like having to stay in a house with people you hate is like torture!
its very hurtfull i really try to be a good mum but he makes me feel like im failing all the time
another big thing is that we have been struggling financially and he cant have the things he wants ,like i cant always get him credit and he makes us feel so bad its like his life depends on it .
he is still eating and sleeping normally and he goes to school and seems to enjoy it so im sure if he were depressed those things would be affected.
im just looking for some prespective
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Normal teenage behavior or is he depressed?
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wonderingwendy · 16/12/2012 10:02
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