DS is having some friends round for his 16th at weekend.
There will be 7 coming.
There will also be lots of family and friends present.
We've agreed that DS and mates can stay in his room and we will provide them with Pizzas and alcohol (2 beers each) We would prefer to do this as we know they all drink and would like some control over the amount they have. I really don't want to be worrying about drunken 16 yr olds. We've spoken about the fact that we will not allow/tolerate any drugs (at least one friend we know smokes weed regularly)
The only other dilemma I have is ... Do I contact the parents?
I was planning to but after speaking to DS he is considering not having any friends over at all now. His view is that they always have some alcohol at weekends. That he has been to each of these lads houses for their birthdays or just to hang out and has drank with their parents knowledge. He is mortified at the thought of me calling parents as if they are all kids!!
I trust my son, he's no angel but is quite mature and I do trust that he is always straight with me. Out of his group of friends I think he is given the least amount of freedom. He has to be in earlier than the group and hasn't been allowed as yet to travel to under-age nightclubs as the others had. He is also the second youngest in the group, all but one have now turned 16.
There is part of me that is thinking he is right and the Parents wouldn't be worried over their DSs having 2 beers at a house party where there is some supervision. BUT another part thinks that it's my duty to check with the parents that it's ok for me to buy them alcohol.
Sorry it's so long!!
Has anyone had similar?
Does anyone know if I would legally be doing anything wrong by allowing 16 year olds who are not my children to have alcohol in my home?
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