Hi,
I have joined this for advice because I am at a loose end, to cut a story short, I have moved to France with my DSH and my two children, 7 and 10. My eldest went to University, which he had planned to do before we planned to move.
After 7 months of us living here, we now have fallen out as my eldest beleives that we no longer care about him and he feels abandoned by us. His main arguements are that, firstly we didn't put that much effort in when it came to university, (as in going on open days with him), or where he chose to go. He is also upset over the fact that we have not been to see him whilst he has been at university.
Along with this he also feels aggreived with some of the status updates I post on Facebook about France, his line has changed from liking France to hating it completely, he argues this is because of all the comments I make about how i prefer France to England and how I never wish to return, I personally feel this is out of order since I am entitled to voice how I feel just as much as him.
There is much more but I do not want to bore you, a final poignant point I feel is that my son also feels angered by the lack of money we have been able to give him. As with our move we set up a business, which has swallowed up mostly all of our income, he argued whilst this may have been a neccessity it could have been slowly phased in so the funding would have been available to him if he ran into difficulty, as currently as it stands we have not given him any money for help at University.
I have now told my son to apologise for these comments and saying them to me in a harsh and rather hateful way, he is not the son i have raised to respect his mother, and I have told him he is not welcome until i receive an apology for this outburst.
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Is my son out of line and am i over reacting
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Undervaluedmother1972 · 22/08/2012 04:30
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