We have parental controls set on the home PC, and strict rules about what can be accessed via her mobile.
She obvioulsy thought 'Yeah right', and accessed a chat room, well more than one. I monitor what she does on there, but being an old fogey would never have found what she was up to if she hadn't forgotten to close the app down before I went on to see what she had been doing after she had gone to bed.
OMFG, the conversations were highly sexual and filthy, and to be fair she hadn't really been indulging in the filthy talk herself, but had done enough to keep their interest - posting facial pics of herself and answering them when they paid her compliments. Those people got down to what they wanted to do to her almost straight away, but the most worrying was a squeaky clean 'teen' who has gained her trust and she is smitten. We are quite sure he is not genuine and he had begun grooming her. I have already contacted the police, and may need to hand over the phone to them.
My question is, do you know your daughter's passwords, and do you check ALL their activity? A friend of mine said her 13yo girl won't let her near her phone so she doesn't know what she does on there - surely it must be a condition of having a mobile?
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Gymbob · 01/07/2012 15:11
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