I had the worst row with my 15 year old twins last night - all three of us screaming at each other. It can go from peace and harmony to WWIII in a nanosecond. I feel so much better for reading these posts - entirely human! My biggest problem is that my boy/girl twins despise each other. They literally spend no time together, and could not be more different. As a single parent it is becoming increasingly depressing and stressful living in a house with 2 people who argue practically every time they share the same air space. My daughter is THE Drama Queen and over reacts when my son (THE wind up artist) winds her up (by this i mean he stares at her/sits by her/makes noises/pretends to read her phone over her shoulder as he walks past - we are not talking major here, but we are talking deliberate). Her voice - when shrieking at full volume - goes RIGHT through me and results in massive adrenaline rush, and me in instant fury. I feel like i am losing the plot: I don't know if i should punish him for these little things or tell her to suck it up and learn to deal with irritating people. I have told her countless times he only does it because she reacts and to walk away, but she always (always!) takes this as criticism and says i should be punishing him and I am a crap mum. I have tried all ways and I am slowly loosing the will...........
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