A little tongue in cheek my thread title...BUT....talking to my daughter about sex education and sneaking a look at what she does in school the tables seem weighted in FAVOUR of them having sex before 16. She is nearly 15 now and talking to her the other day and she told about a classmate who is two and a half months pregnnant. ("..she's a lovely gilr though mum, and she'll have an abortion.")anyway my daughter was adamant that it's legal to have sex at any age..the school she says have never mentioned that it's illegal under 16 (and I know plenty of kids do have sex under 16, I work in a college and we have quite a few young girls and babies attending, but it's just another thing to consider) I had to look it up on the internet and show her before she'd believe me.
School have taught them how to put on condoms, where to get them for free, how to get the morning after pill, explained how to go to the doctor to go on the pill, discussed various birth control methods etc etc but never gone into the emotional side of girls (and boys) having sex etc nor the fact that technically it is illiegal (though I suppose this could make it more attractive to some) To me we seem to be plastering over the cut rather than treating the cause....or am I old fashioned? I would like my daughter to get to 16 first really, I think she would be emotionally ready then..and my eldest said she wishes she HAD'NT had sex at around 16..says personally in retrospect she wasn't ready. Beleive me, I am not a prude, far from it but this does concern me.
Is it just the school she is at or her? What do other mums, dads and carers, and teenager think?
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febel · 17/05/2012 08:06
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