Hi All,
I'm a new member with a troubled daughter.
She's 20, and we have always had some kind of tension or issue needing resolving with her.
She went out a week last Tuesday, and basically, we haven't seen her since.
That will be 2 weeks tomorrow.
She texted the first couple of days, but we have had nothing since.
Luckily, we do know where she is, by various means, she is currently residing at the house of a distant relative.
There has been no argument or conflict, she just went.
I believe that she is probably going round telling folk that she can't return home, she does like a drama!
We no longer want her to live here, basically because we believe that she needs to branch out on her own, she clearly doesn't like living with us, doesn't tidy her room, eat with us or communicate with us.
She works part time in a bar, so at least she can have some funds of her own.
This is a very short version of events, but as the events have been going on for so very long, i fear that you would all nod off!
What to do next?
We really don't know, we don't see why we should get in contact, as she clearly doesn't want us to. My sister has asked her to contact me, but she has lied, saying that she has texted me every day, which is clearly not the case.
I am now of the opinion that as she is 20 years old, and an adult, if she chooses to leave the family home, and not contact us, that is her right.
I have made sure that she is safe, well, and still working, and that my obligation stops there, much as i love her.
Any clues?
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Bumblefeet · 14/05/2012 16:45
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