Hi Im new to Mumsnet and really hoping you can help me with an ongoing problem.
I am a mum of 5 , the youngest is 16 the rest are over 18 and dont live at home.
My 16 year old son has recently made some wrong decisions which has led to him drinking,smoking drugs and to top it off got drunk in town,stole lagers and then got arrested!!! Seems like a night in the cells put the fear of god into him.
He used to have a great relationship with my partner of 5 years but with all the erratic behaviour my partner and son are constantly at loggerheads.
I have always had a good relationship with all my kids, I am very open to all the goings on in their lives and they are honest with me . I have rules and my way of dealing with wrong behaviour. Might not be the right way but hey its worked for my older kids. Trouble is my partner says I let him get away with too much and he was punished as a kid and did him no harm...........its now causing total chaos at home and Im stuck in the middle. Any advise would be greatfully received - should I let my partner dictate my sons punishment or should I carry on going with my gut instinct?????
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Moomah11 · 04/04/2012 18:36
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